What I am really asking for, is for God to change me.
When I ask God to help me, I am really asking God to change me.
That is why praying does not work, because the only thing we should be praying for is evolution.
What we pray for is typically for <GOD> to save us or give us things, but this is not how <GOD> works.
The only time “we” ever see <GOD> is when a great and permanent change has taken place, individually or relatively, across the playing field.
<GOD> will answer your prayer, if you ask for change; to be born anew.
It is the only time <GOD> ever answers our prayers.
Unfortunately, when <GOD> moves, the “what” is replaced with a “Who”, but the who does not recall the what.
The only problem with <GOD>, is the what, very much wants to be remembered.